Comments on: PSA: Girls? It's okay to google the screennames of the ones you love. http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love A Blog Without A Tagline. Mon, 08 Mar 2010 07:45:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Nobiwan http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love/comment-page-1#comment-7981 Nobiwan Thu, 23 Aug 2007 00:22:25 +0000 http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love/#comment-7981 Oddly, just a day or so after I last posted, I heard from that fucknut again. Kinda. He ran into a good friend (who also happens to be about thrice his size and is very overly-protective of me) and said he wants to apologize. He was duly informed he was apologizing to the wrong person, after pleading his way out of a wrestling lock he had found himself in. Odd how people can be so very endearing even doing things you don't necessarily approve of. Anyway, I said he could e-mail me, thinking I'd go ahead and post what the fake apology is going to typically look like, but it hasn't come, and I now doubt it will. "I'm so sorry I took advantage of you, estranged you from all your friends, and generally made your life miserable. Let me do it again, please?" Pffft. Yeah. Anyway, it amused me that he popped up again right after hearing about such similar drama again. Oddly, just a day or so after I last posted, I heard from that fucknut again. Kinda. He ran into a good friend (who also happens to be about thrice his size and is very overly-protective of me) and said he wants to apologize. He was duly informed he was apologizing to the wrong person, after pleading his way out of a wrestling lock he had found himself in.

Odd how people can be so very endearing even doing things you don't necessarily approve of.

Anyway, I said he could e-mail me, thinking I'd go ahead and post what the fake apology is going to typically look like, but it hasn't come, and I now doubt it will. "I'm so sorry I took advantage of you, estranged you from all your friends, and generally made your life miserable. Let me do it again, please?" Pffft.

Yeah. Anyway, it amused me that he popped up again right after hearing about such similar drama again.

]]> By: LuzdelaLuna http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love/comment-page-1#comment-7907 LuzdelaLuna Sat, 18 Aug 2007 02:07:24 +0000 http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love/#comment-7907 Very well written post. The more we get the word out the lesss power these goons have to exploit. Very well written post. The more we get the word out the lesss power these goons have to exploit.

]]> By: Nobiwan http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love/comment-page-1#comment-7902 Nobiwan Thu, 16 Aug 2007 22:58:28 +0000 http://www.coffeechick.com/main/2007/08/psa-girls-its-okay-to-google-the-screennames-of-the-ones-you-love/#comment-7902 I think on eof the biggest problems in this kind of relationship, is that the victim has the very best of intentions, and the perpetrator has the very worst. I had a similar problem (though there was no sex involved). He moved to Denver in 2003, and it was only a little over a year ago that I finally could take no more and cut off all contact with him. Thew worst part is that I put my family through that drama and abuse for three years. And it all started so innocently, because he was someone who shared my spirituality and there aren't a whole lot of those around. Gets to be a tad lonely. So of course I was more than happy to help him out when he wanted a fresh start in a new city. Yeah. Well, the rest you can read in any number of blogs, forums, and chats over the internets. These people are just users. They go around and use people up until there's nothing more to gain from them, and then they move on to the next person. They won't change, because they don't see a need and would never want to. That's just the way some people are. I think on eof the biggest problems in this kind of relationship, is that the victim has the very best of intentions, and the perpetrator has the very worst. I had a similar problem (though there was no sex involved). He moved to Denver in 2003, and it was only a little over a year ago that I finally could take no more and cut off all contact with him. Thew worst part is that I put my family through that drama and abuse for three years. And it all started so innocently, because he was someone who shared my spirituality and there aren't a whole lot of those around. Gets to be a tad lonely. So of course I was more than happy to help him out when he wanted a fresh start in a new city. Yeah. Well, the rest you can read in any number of blogs, forums, and chats over the internets. These people are just users. They go around and use people up until there's nothing more to gain from them, and then they move on to the next person. They won't change, because they don't see a need and would never want to. That's just the way some people are.

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