I had a bit of a talk with someone recently, about some things that are probably not meant to be shared, but…it’s bugging me. And blogging…it’s like cutting, but different.<\/p>\n
I’ll vague it up, or something.
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\nThere’s this freshly sixteen-year-old female person out there that just had a baby. Pretty vague, huh? It’s her second — the first one didn’t turn into a baby, or something. Possibly because of the fact that she was in the area of fourteen when that happened.<\/p>\n
I don’t know if they had the same father. The one that was born, she’s married to the father, because that’s what you do when you’re fifteen and pregnant, right? You get married to the twenty-one year old that got you pregnant. Possibly because he told you to<\/i>.<\/p>\n
Here comes the part that’s bugging the undead shit<\/i> out of me. Not the sixteen year old married to the twenty-one year old, having a baby while she’s still in school thing, not even the part where they may or may not know eachother because he drinks with her father…this happens every day in the good ol’ US of A — it’s a generic story you can find anywhere on a daytime talkshow. The part where they’re living with his parents isn’t even that<\/i> terrible.<\/p>\n
Well, maybe a little….<\/p>\n
It’s the…control. See, he’s already decided when she’ll have the next baby [possibly within a year], and that, when she comes home from the hospital, she’s to go back to school, and<\/i> get a job, and<\/i> do the housework, and<\/i> take care of the baby.<\/p>\n
She has to ask permission to go to bed.<\/p>\n
Maybe I’m missing something here. Maybe she’s discovered the submissive lifestyle and decided it was for her. If so, that’s great, but…I have my doubts. It’s these doubts that’ve been gnawing on my brain like angry puppies, trying to get me to write this.<\/p>\n
I’m sorry if I’ve broken a confidence of some sort — I just had to say something<\/i>. I couldn’t deny the puppies.<\/p>\n
And I don’t think she’s a sub. I think she’s in a bad place that’s going to get worse.<\/p>\n
There. I said something. Saying stuff doesn’t do any good at all.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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